• Caring for a baby is no walk in the park. In fact, it can be disheartening enough that I wouldn’t say it’d be fun to even try the baby-caring stuff any sooner than you have to. However, some training while you’re still baby-free will come in handy. These are some things worthwhile to your regular life and just happen to be helpful if you do find yourself living the #dadlife.

    Polyphasic Sleep

    Sleep is supposed to be simple, right? You get tired, you lay down, you fall asleep. Some common advice you’ll hear is to “get some sleep” before the baby comes because they won’t let you sleep through the night. My advice is instead to get used to the idea of sleeping more often for shorter lengths of time. The baby won’t let you stick to the tried-and-true schedules, but you should learn what it feels like to sleep briefly, wake up and work frantically, then go back to napping.

    The first couple weeks were insanely unpredictable for our sleep, but more recently its been settling more into sleeping about 6.5 hours of sleep over the course of four segments.

    Homebrew

    Most folks live without giving much thought to sanitation, but your baby needs cleanliness. You’re destined to become a bottle-cleaning master, and the chore is not fun. What you need is a reminder of how ‘worth it’ all this cleaning time is.

    When homebrewing, the most common mistake new folks make is inadequately cleaning and sanitizing their equipment. The beautiful thing is that as you clean better, your beer tastes better. You slack off? Crappy taste for you. Don’t make your baby drink your mistakes, make them with beer instead.

    Workout

    Good squat form should be a pre-requisite before being discharged from the hospital. When you have a sleeping baby in your arms, you’ll be glad you have the strength not only to hold them still, but also to sit/stand/jump/squat/carry-other-stuff-too at the same time. Cardio is all well and good, but strength training has been the single-most valuable thing I’ve done to prepare for caring for an infant. It’s not unhelpful for the baby-less either.

    Cook Casseroles

    Julia Child wouldn’t take the time to cook dinner every night if there was a baby screaming like yours will. Do yourself a favor and find multiple casserole recipes you enjoy. Cook once, eat a lot. That’s efficiency, people.

  • It was never my intention to focus on the Guardian badge in Ingress. Earning it seemed at lot more about how other agents play instead of about how you play. But around day 100 you start to get the itch that this portal might be the one that makes it all the way. Mine finally did.

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    Not sure if any strategy is actually key to earning the Guardian badge. I think it’s mostly luck. But I can tell you how I handled mine and maybe that will help you with problems you’re encountering.

    Low Resonator Count

    One resonator is all you need to own a portal. Further resonators will only draw more attention to it, and if there’s anything you don’t want, it’s attention. Put one L8 resonator on your portal and leave it be. This means it’s less likely to be see on the Intel map, and no one will accidentally make a field with it as an anchor.

    Recharge

    Since you can’t rely on any backup resonators, you’ll want to recharge frequently. While I didn’t see myself as focusing on the Guardian badge, I have been working on my Recharger badge so this goes hand in hand. Make your guardian candidates your first recharge then carry on with any other recharging strategy you have. Learn to quickly find their portal keys when sorted by Name (since your distance will change.) Daily recharging isn’t necessary, but is ideal.

    You may find that other agents have ‘bumped’ your portal, adding their own resonators to fill in your gaps. I never recharged their resonators, so that within a week mine was on the only one there.

    Wheaton’s Law

    Have you heard of this rule? It says “Don’t Be a Dick.” A lot of Guardian candidates are lost because player A does something player B doesn’t like, so player B makes a point to hunt down player A’s portals. I avoided doing anything anyone wouldn’t like by not playing much in the past few months — that’s not really a great strategy for enjoying a game. But I think you can follow the same principle by focusing on fielding, missions, and meetups when you have a strong Guardian candidate.

    Hunting for unique portals by playing on a side of town you don’t normally visit can be seen as crude by an agent who’s already mad, even though you’re playing with good intent. Normally I wouldn’t let something like that bother me, and I’d just play where I wanted anyway. But I’d rather avoid the conflict entirely if it keeps my 100+ day Guardian alive. No conflicts means stable portals.

    Double Up

    My Guardian was actually a pair of portals right next to each other. They both made it. However a couple times it was a close call. Never were my portals directly attacked, but they both took heavy damage from incidental XMPs nearby. Also, a couple of times one of my portals anchored a relatively large field — but not both. It never ended up being the clincher for me, but it was a nice insurance to have two portals instead of one.

  • He saw the little human cuddle with me like this and he wanted to try it out.

  • Last year I aimed for 15 books and ended up reading 18. I also let myself start almost a full month early, but the reality is I wasted more than a month not reading at all during the year. So this year I’m aiming for 20 books. Hitting those 20 books won’t really be so much about adding new reading time so much as keeping up the consistency month-to-month.

    It also doesn’t hurt that I plan to read a ton of John Scalzi’s books and I read his stuff quickly. It’s fun material and his voice resonates so well with me I just never put the books down. I even put one of his non-fiction books on the list.

    For the purposes of planning I don’t add books that are more technical / reference in nature. However if I do end up reading one of those cover-to-cover and writing a review of it (as it looks like will happen with at least one JavaScript book) I add it to the list later on.

    These are in no particular order, and I edit the list as I go throughout the year:

    1. Dune by Frank Herbert
    2. Getting Things Done by David Allen
    3. Project Management For You by Cesar Abeid (late addition)
    4. Zoe’s Tale by John Scalzi
    5. The Name of the Wind by Patrick Rothfuss
    6. You’re Not Fooling Anyone When You Take Your Laptop to a Coffee Shop by John Scalzi
    7. The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time by Mark Haddon (audio, late addition)
    8. Lock In by John Scalzi
    9. American Gods by Neil Gaiman
    10. Hug Your Haters by Jay Baer (late addition)
    11. Flow by Mihály Csíkszentmihályi (late addition)
    12. CivilWarLand in Bad Decline by George Saunders
    13. The Icarus Deception: How High Will You Fly? by Seth Godin
    14. The Human Division by John Scalzi
    15. The End of All Things by John Scalzi
    16. The Android’s Dream by John Scalzi
    17. Redshirts by John Scalzi
    18. A Beautiful Constraint by Adam Morgan and Mark Barden
    19. Setting the Table by Danny Meyer
    20. A More Beautiful Question by Warren Berger
    21. Notes From a Small Island by Bill Bryson
    22. Casino Royale by Ian Fleming
    23. Sheepfarmer’s Daughter by Elizabeth Moon
    24. Antifragile by Nassim Nicholas Taleb
  • Over the weekend I tried putting together a post about New Year’s Resolutions or goals for the coming year. But I never really got past the self-reflection part. I have some measurable goals for work, but all in all I’m incredibly happy with how my life is shaping and I don’t really ‘resolve’ much of anything.

    Resolve to keep doing what I’m doing I suppose?

    I’ve got a lot to learn, but I feel like my biggest issues are all things I’ve already been tackling for months, so the new year has no bearing on it at all.

    With that in mind, I quit working on the resolutions post. Instead, I did another update I’ve been meaning to add for a some time. Derek Sivers is one of my favorite role models, and he started a movement he’s calling “NowNowNow.” The movement is the idea that websites should have a “Now” page.

    If a contact page is where I learn how to reach you, and an about page is where I understand your history/context, the now page is where I learn what’s important to you right now in this phase of your life/business/project.

    Maybe we were close friends in high school but haven’t spoken for years: you don’t really need my About page, you know who I am. But my Now page would be really helpful if you wanted to check in on me.

    Since that self-reckoning is as far as I got in my resolutions, I basically turned all that stuff into my new Now page. It’s up there in the menu and I’ll keep it updated with what my focuses are for this stage of life.

    2016 Resolution: Keep “Now” updated?

  • My mother-in-law got me this awesome mug for Christmas. Today’s the first chance I’ve had to use it. Goes well with the rest of our living room.

    Photo on 12-31-15 at 6.56 AM

  • Over the weekend we got a belated Christmas present. Our daughter, Grace, was born. However, if you follow my inane postings on social media, you’ll notice they’re largely text and only mildly worth seeing.

    https://twitter.com/alexjgustafson/status/682202358730874880

    I wrote about this before, but figure it’s worth a reminder. For the most part, we won’t be posting pictures of Grace on social media like Facebook and Twitter. Other folks (friends/grandparents) will do more I’m sure, and we’re not going to hassle them about it. It’s just hard to predict exactly what will become of all the data we put onto the web by the time Grace is old enough to have an opinion about it.

    With certainty I can say I’m very happy my baby book is not open and available for the internet to see, even though I’m sure there were friends and family who wanted to see more pictures of me when I was a baby. Just because we can make photos more available to everyone doesn’t mean we automatically should. Not putting our photos on facebook everyday doesn’t mean we’re hiding our daughter from her grandparents, we just don’t prefer that medium.

    However, I’m not sure of a solution that really fits all the new social norms and still satisifies this desire of mine. We still posted a picture to make the birth ‘facebook official’ and I totally approved of grandparents posting pictures of them and the baby on social media as well. For my part though, I plan to keep most of the pictures at least partially obscured away. When Grace is old enough to have an opinion, we can always open them up to everyone if she’d like that.

    If you’d like to see pictures of Grace, we’re blogging them at https://babygustafson.wordpress.com/ .

    You’ll need a password to view any of the posts, but we’re happily providing access to any friends or family. If you don’t have the password but would like it, just contact me in real life or use the contact form for the photo blog.

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  • One of the cool things WordPress.com handles is media embeds. Instead of messing around with a bunch of embed codes, your WordPress.com site is setup to use oEmbed. This means if you want to share something like a YouTube video, you can just put the YouTube video’s link into your post and we handle the rest.

    The tricky thing about embeds though is they can be tough to style if you want to do something specific with them in your post. With some services WordPress.com also provides shortcodes, but those don’t give you full design reign either.

    The most common request I see is to center up an embed with a post or page’s body. While it’s hard to apply styles to the embed itself, we can definitely apply styles to an HTML element that surrounds the embed, like a div.

    Using CSS Flexbox, it’s then pretty easy to center up that embed. Here’s a video:

    The code I use that in video is the following:

    <div style="display:flex;justify-content:center;">
    
    // Link to embeddable content here
    
    </div>
    

    You can also see it in action on yesterday’s post.

    If you have questions specific to your WordPress.com site, contact our staff at WordPress.com/Help.

  • 82 minutes of Christmas music I actually enjoy.

  • To be a contestant on Jeopardy, one must first participate in a timed test online. A top percentage of those who take the test will then be selected to attend an in-person audition. Jeopardy recently opened registration for the first online stage.

    Testing for the Teen Tournament will be on January 14th, 2016. The Adult tests will take place on January 26th, 27th, and 28th, 2016.

    Register for either test on Jeopardy.com

    I take the test every year and never really do well. Pretty sure the closest I’ll ever get to being on Jeopardy is when I passed the Teen Tournament test in 8th grade but didn’t get called after my audition. Louisvillian Tara Anderson recently won on Jeopardy though! So my present location certainly won’t be the factor holding me back.

    Time to go review that list of rivers in Europe again.